Deceptive, opportunistic users are among the toxic people you need to avoid for good. You have to be wiser to detect what are the signs of deceptions of an opportunistic user.

Opportunistic users will only remember you when they urgently need something: funds, money, donation, food, homemade cooked food, car services, use you even as a flying monkey, use you as a messenger to people she doesn’t like, use you as a middle person to implement unfriendly, harsh matters she needs to address to protect their interest, she will use you for her interests and motives, and an opportunistic user see you only as an object for her to use and abuse not as a real friend.

When an opportunistic user can no longer use or manipulate you and most especially when you discover the chains of her deceptions through several years, she commits slander to try to ruin or damage you. Hence, her next victims have no one to verify if she pretends to be an immigration officer, a man, a lawyer or when she uses many aliases while asking for political funding or charity-political funds from many Facebook group chats or other forms of social media communications.

 She paints you and dehumanises you as a brain-damaged person, as a threat, as a risk as a danger, as a mentally ill person with her destructive intentions to hurt you, shame you, try to damage or ruin your credibility, integrity and trustworthiness.

The Opportunistic Users I had the misfortune to meet were five financial, parasitic political, opportunistic user women from 2017 to 2019. They are Machiavellian manipulators and deceivers who are experts in their reversals and fabrication of lies and calumny. They also have the hallmarks of maladaptive narcissists, a tactic they use and foot-in-the-door technique when targeting their financial, political funding begging and committing digital mob lynching through their group narcissist political bullying to discredit and damage some of the donors they used and abused.

They get away with their habitual offences of libel and slander because they use pseudonyms when they beg political funding from 2017 to 2019.

They are using new aliases now while they collect political funds.

Do not be deceived, used, slandered and abused.

~ Angelica Hopes, an excerpt from Sfidatopia

Book 2,  Solo la verità è bella Trilogy  

Genre: inspirational, political, literary novel

© Ana Angelica Abaya van Doorn

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“What is an Opportunistic User?

She is always around when she needs you.

He’ll steal the teeth out of your mouth and then come back for your gums.

When the money stops talking, she starts walking.
He is a human gimme pig.

The Opportunistic User is selfish, interfering, manipulative, backstabbing, brown-nosing, secretive, indirect, ass-kissing, disloyal, conspirational, dishonest, sneaky, unappreciative, underhanded, tenacious and seductive. 

Opportunistic Users are out for themselves alone. They are fair-weather friends who want you in their life only when it is convenient for them – when they can benefit. These people will do anything to get ahead. If they can’t benefit from someone or have benefitted all they can, they discard the person like a used paper towel, without a second thought.”

~ Dr. Lilian Glass 📚

An excerpt from my novel, “Calunniatopia”

“I woke up early to bake these rose-shaped zucchini or courgette. I also baked a tray of rose-shaped red apples – mini apple pie. I was so excited that morning to meet Signora Bugiarda, Signora Imbrogliona,and Signora Pettegole in the Gateway to Europe.

On that day, while strolling in the city of the Gateway to Europe, Signora Bugiarda and Signora Imbrogliona told us that Senator Coglioni, a congressman and four other brave men from the political organisation are coming so she needs volunteers who can cook food from appetiser, main dish, dessert, bring drinks and meet them during that holiday of Whit Monday, June 5, 2017. Signora Imbrogliona said she would like to bring the six brave men to the Land of the Thinkers and Poets, just like the way she brought Avvocato Onesto on April. Signora Imbrogliona also asked me a copy of my passport and the passport of my husband as she said that it is a protocol. Some years later, I learned that it is her cunning protocol to have a leverage of all information she can get from any person whom she uses and abuses and people whom she threatens after she extracted, demanded, and asked money, services, help and urgent favours from them.

Signora Bugiarda is an expat from the Pearl of the Orient Seas who claims that she lives in the region of Star of the South or The Reds, at that time, she was staying at the house of Signora Imbrogliona near the Poldermolen.

The two sweet talker women were fixed on me and Signora Pettegola as they both know that we love to cook.

In my forty-six years of my life, I never thought that I would meet a Senator or a Congressman coming from the Pearl of the Orient Seas. Signora Imbrogliona kept on telling us since January 2017, that there is not enough budget, and that funds need to be raised for the airfare and travel expenses of Avvocato Onesto and now, Signora Imbrogliona persuaded continuously that these brave men need help, that the organisation needs financial help as she asked me to give her money when she came to get her forgotten jacket in my home, and at the same time she cornered me in the kitchen demanding, persuading and asking donations for the family of a certain policeman whom she said will be a future witness in an international legal procedures. How come she is already asking money and donations for a witness and at the same time she said, “Don’t tell Signora Vipera that I am asking you donations,” when in fact at that time, the communications had just been submitted by them, and no case yet not even preliminary examination nor any preliminary investigation has been conducted yet. She was asking donations but she never gave any transparency on where all the donations went from 2017 to 2019.

While she asked me those funds, Signora Imbrogliona had changed aliases for 3 times already in the span of five months. I learned later from the other generous donors from the Pearl of the Orient Seas, from the land of Uncle Sam and the City of Angels, that Signora Bugiarda loves to be addressed as Avvocato Calunnia and Avvocato Calunnia or Signora Imbrogliona had used 18 or more aliases while asking donations from different political group chats and from different countries. Signora Imbrogliona loves to be addressed as Avvocato Calunnia. She warned me that she must only be addressed as a man. Many wondered if she was really a lawyer, some even asked me if Signora Imbrogliona is a lawyer. Being addressed as a lawyer is a power for Signora Imbrogliona. Her power to ask donations, her power to threaten others, and her power to be respected and her power to appear intelligent. Is she really a lawyer? That query has been answered on October 2019 and January 2020 when her formerly scammed and abused victims told me the truth about Signora Imbrogliona who wants to be addressed as Avvocato Calunnia.

Signora Imbrogliona and Signora Pettegola pressured me on February 2017 that I must use an alias because according to them I am the next target to be bullied and be shamed by a very famous Facebook blogger whom they hated and whom they said bullied and shamed them. On the very same year, other people who knew the truth informed me face to face that I was not targeted by the famous Facebook blogger, rather, it was Signora Imbrogliona, Signora Vipera, Signora Manipolatrice, Avvocato Calunnia who first attacked their target victim and later they all acted like victims of cyber bulling and defamation where in fact they were the provocateur, meddlers and deceptive trouble makers hiding in various aliases as they play the vitriolic, dirty game of destructive cyber political war.

Bullying. Shaming. Defamation. Slander. Libel. 

They all did that to to me that unforgettable June 2017 while Signora Imbrogliona and Signora Bugiarda asked for my help to ask my husband to drive the brave men at four o’clock in the morning from the City of Peace and Justice to the city of the Capital of Europe.

On that day that my husband was driving home from the Battle Ground of Europe, I saw from various political groups where Signora Imbrogliona and Signora Vipera wrote along the lines, “We have to remove Istina Hakikat. She is a danger, a threat to security and a risk.”

That was June 2017. They intentionally committed libel and slander and shared destructive calumny to destroy me.

Three years after, I learned the truth of how destructive their libel and slander was.

The group of habitually aggressive friends of Signora Imbrogliona, Signora Bugiarda and Signora Stronza from the city of Big Ben: they all agreed to brand, shame, libel, slander, and collectively and secretly bully me through libel and slander telling everyone they know that Istina Hakikat is a mentally deranged person, a crazy person, a quarrelsome person, and a “Sisang Baliw.” 

As I look at the intricate twirl and delicately thin courgette spiced with a pinch of Himalayan salt and black pepper, freshly baked from the oven, the nutritious and delicious aroma makes me think: that those unscrupulous political movers who are also toxic, financial leeches or abusive financial parasites may have spiced up all their lies and deceptions through the years they tried to ruin me or damage me but they failed; because the essence of truth and the facts and truth are not in their hands. They are the habitual Machiavellian manipulators and destructive offenders who lied repeatedly to serve their political agenda, feed their envy, cast their vindictive and vitriolic ways, their fear Mongering and hate causing polarization and divisiveness, but their lies backfired and they shall always meet along the road of life, the karmic whirlwind of their manipulations, deceptions, fraud, racketeering, libel, slander, identity theft, indefinite lies and habitual verbal, financial, psychological and emotional abuses.”

~ Angelica Hopes, an excerpt from Calunniatopia
Book 1, Solo la verità è bella Trilogy  

Genre: inspirational, political, literary novel

© Ana Angelica Abaya van Doorn

Truth, facts, integrity, and honesty against liars, manipulators, calumny, falsehood, cons, scammers, swindlers, unscrupulous politicians, financial, parasitic political women, unscrupulous political movers, deceivers, deception, racketeering, slander, libel, bullying, puppets of current or former dirty politicians, and Machiavellian manipulators.

Author

Philippine-born Swiss author, poet, memoirist, aphorist, ghostwriter, multi-genre novelist, freelance writer, Indie author, publisher, and an Italian-English translator. Dedicated mother & loving wife, and a multi-lingual travel and nutritarian diet enthusiast. I love to read, write, listen to audio-books, cook, bake, reach out, and travel. Ana Angelica Abaya van Doorn Nom de plume: Angelica Hopes

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